Unique Indian Wedding Rituals You Will Find Only In India

By | May 18, 2018
Indian Wedding Rituals

Find Out Your Traditional Wedding Rituals, The One Who You Belong To


India is a Country of different languages, rituals, belongings and so on but still they have one thing common and that is their believes in them. Wedding is an important phase of life that every one have to face minimum once in life, and yes we are here to discuss about the different unique Indian Wedding Rituals, which we can find only in India. As we all know that there are many Indian Wedding Rituals like the pre marriage ceremony, marriage ceremony, after marriage ceremony and all these are full of joy, love and fun.

India is a multi cultured country and therefore you may find people with different languages, living style and of course with different believes which varies according to geographical location. Here we have a list of different Indian Wedding Rituals, So let’s get started.

#1  Indian Wedding Rituals in  Kashmiri Style

The Pre wedding Ceremony include the rituals like

Indian Wedding Rituals

Kasamdry – After both the families agreed to the alliance a formal engagement ceremony occur in which both the family congregate at a temple and exchange flowers as an omen of cordiality as well as celebration.

Livun – This refers to the ceremonial cleaning of the house in both the bride and groom’s families.

Wanvun – After the Livun ritual every evening all the relatives arrives at both bride and groom’s place. Traditional Kashmiri folk songs and wedding ballads are sung by the ladies and the guests are served with the customary drink of Sheer Chai ( a kind of tea ).

Maenziraat – This Ritual include an embellished bathing at the bride’s place On the day before the wedding.

51 Thaal –  In it the bride’s family is to sends 51 platters or thaals containing fruits, dry fruits, sweets and other food item to the groom’s place.

Phoolon Ka Gehna and Snazaroo – In it the groom’s family sends the bride beautiful jewelry made of flowers which she is to wear on the morning of her wedding.

Kanishran – The bride/groom is bathed with a mixture of water, milk, curd and rice.

 

Wedding Day Ceremony include the rituals like –

Indian Wedding Rituals

Departure of the Groom – a female member of the groom family touches a plate containing rice and some money to the groom’s left shoulder. The groom mounts a mare, carries a sword and heads towards the bride’s house along with some male members of the family.

Welcoming of the Groom – The fathers of the bride and the groom exchange nutmeg which symbolizes acceptance of this relationship and hope that it lasts long.

Lagan – The wedding ceremony is also called as Lagan.

Posh puza – At the end the bride and the groom sit comfortably and a red cloth is placed over their heads.

Post-wedding Ceremony include the rituals like –

Indian Wedding Rituals

Fun and Games, Vidaai, Welcoming of the bride.

#2  Indian Wedding Rituals in  South Indian Style

 

Indian Wedding Rituals

Rituals like full-grown plantain trees tied to both the gateposts, festoons overhead of mango leaves, and screw-pine petals that never fade, notes of the Nadaswaram, the South Indian Shehnai, Kolam or Rangoli designs at the doorsteps are some of the example of South Indian Wedding Rituals.

Indian Wedding Rituals

The Kannada Wedding Rituals commence with the Nischay Tamulam ceremony wherein the family fixes the date of marriage. Then the Haldi ceremony takes place, wherein turmeric paste is applied to both bride and bridegroom in their respective houses. Before leaving for the wedding venue, groom’s family conducts a Dev Karya Ceremony, during which they pray to Lord Ganesh.

Indian Wedding Rituals

 #3  Indian Wedding Rituals in  Bengoli Style

The Pre wedding Ceremony include the rituals like

Indian Wedding Rituals

Paka Katha or Pati Potro – Where a formal meeting between the elders of the bride’s and groom’s families to formally agree on the different facets of the marriage.

Aiburobhat – relatives gather at the bride’s house and shower her with gifts. Then she is treated to an elaborate feast with rice, fish and several vegetable dishes.

Jol Sowa – On the morning of the wedding day, mother of the bride and groom is accompanied by a few married women of the family goes to the nearest water body to fill a brass pitcher. This water is to be used to bathe the bride or groom after their Gaye Holud ceremony.

Dodhi Mangal – The bride and the groom are fed with a mixture made of sweet curd, rice flakes, banana and sweets like sandesh in copious quantity before sunrise. And after that they have to fast until the wedding rituals are complete.

Gaye Holud and Tattwa – A turmeric paste made from grinding fresh turmeric with mustard oil is applied on the groom’s body by his mother and other married female relatives. He is then bathed with the water procured in the morning. The remaining turmeric paste is put in a silver bowl and sent to the bride’s place.

Wedding Day Ceremony include the rituals like –

Indian Wedding Rituals

 

Bor Jatri and Boron – The groom starts from his house after receiving his mother’s blessings, towards the wedding venue, accompanied by few of his friends and elderly male relatives.  Upon reaching the wedding venue, the Groom and the Bor Jatri are welcomed by the mother of the bride welcomes him with a Baran Dala, a large tray made of cane containing auspicious ingredients like rice, turmeric, betel nuts, bunch of banana and a lighted diya.

Ashirbaad –  The elders from bride’s side take their turns in blessing the groom and presenting him with expensive gifts of jewellery, cash or even watches.

Saat Paak and Subho Drishti – bride is seated in a wooden platform known as piri and is carried by 4-5 young male members of her family to the mandap, all the while she hides her face from view with the help of a couple of betel leaves. The bride is supposed to circumambulate around the groom seven times aided by the male relatives carrying her. This is known as Saat Paak.

Mala Badal- The couple then exchange their garland in a ritual known as Mala Bodol.

 

Sindoor Daan- Next the groom applies Sindoor on the parting of bride’s hair and he covers her head with a new saree known as the Lajjabastra.

Post-wedding Ceremony include the rituals like –

Indian Wedding Rituals

Bidaai –  It refers to the departure of the couple from the bride’s place

Bodhu Baran – The bride is welcomed into her in-laws’ place.

Bou Bhaat – The next day morning, the bride is initiated officially into the new family during the Bou Bhaat ritual. The husband presents his wife with clothes and sweets on a platters and promises to take care of her for the rest of their lives.

Reception – On the evening after the marriage groom’s family invites their relatives for a reception where they get to meet the new bride and offer their best wishes to the couple.

 

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